Mihee and I got grabbed a bite to eat in downtown Pohang
today and did a little shopping at the Lotte mall as well. It was pretty late
by the time we drove back to Wolpo and we were both exhausted. The car was
silent and I was on the verge of falling asleep. But, for some reason I started
to think about an article I read earlier that day. It was about how North Korea
was planning on attacking South Korea sometime soon (they had already “test”
launched a nuclear missile last week- which didn’t even make it off the ground
-> lol). So I asked Mihee, “what do you think about North Korea?” I thought
her response was very interesting . . .
She told me “Well, I don’t like North Korea, but I
don’t hate them either.” She said that they were “pathetic”. She explained how
South Korea gives rice and money to them all the time, because if they were to
stop North Korea would attack them. Two years ago, in 2010, South Korea stopped supplying
them with rice and money and North Korea launched a torpedo at one of their
Naval ships. 46 people died. And what did South Korea do? Attack North Korea
with full-force for unreasonably attacking one of their naval ships and killing
46 innocent lives? Nope. They did not retaliate. They did nothing. In fact,
they gave them what they wanted- more money and more rice. Think of a spoiled child that doesn't get its way- that basically sums up the reasoning behind why North Korea acts the way they do. North Koreans are dirt poor and many starve to death. The US isn't providing them with any food or resources- so (like a child) they lash out, throw a temper tantrum, stomp their feet and make everyone else around them (aka South Korea) pay for their failures to govern effectively.
Living here I’ve realized that South Koreans avoid
confrontation at all cost and are (for the most part) very peaceful people. They
always look happy, even when they’re not.
So I asked Mihee, “why don’t you hate North Korea? They
attack your country and your people, and they demand food and money from your
government.” She said that the president of North Korea has “trapped the minds”
of the North Korean people- that they don’t know any other lifestyle except the
one they’re living. She told me “people are dying over there. Their president
takes the food and money our government gives them and keeps most of it for him
and his army. The rest of the population is left with close to nothing. And then
he uses his army to attack us! It’s just one big vicious circle.” So I’m
thinking to myself . . . okay, Kim Jong-un (aka the president of North Korea)
demands rice, money and supplies from South Korea because he complains that his
people are poor. And when receiving said supplies, he keeps most of it for
himself and the army- and then he uses his army to attack South Korea. How
messed up is that!?
I asked her “why doesn’t your country just stop
supplying North Korea with money and rice?” (not that I thought the issue
could be resolved that easily, I was just curious about her response). She told
me that South Korea is afraid that North Korea will attack them again, just
like when they blew up one of their Navy vessels two years ago. They want to
avoid as much conflict as possible- so they usually just end up giving them
what they want.
The car got pretty silent after that. We were both
thinking about what to say next, but we couldn’t find the words . . .
“North Korea is dark” Mihee said finally. “There are no
lights.” She said the capital, Pyongyang, is the only city that lights up at
night- the rest of the country is poor and dark. “No one is allowed to leave
the country, and no one is allowed inside.” Mihee told me, “if I was born in
North Korea I would commit suicide. It’s not a good place to be.”
We pulled up to my apartment and I was sad that our
conversation was ended so abruptly. I like hearing what Mihee has to say- her
English is phenomenal and hearing her talk about stuff like this is very
interesting to me. It’s amazing how much I learn here- from real people with
real stories. It’s way better than learning from some dusty old textbook,
that’s for sure.
The world's most secretive country is also one of its darkest. This satellite image shows a drastic difference between North and South Korea at night. The capital of North Korea, Pyongyang, is represented by the little speckle of yellow near the western coast- it's one of the only places in the country with electricity.
The bright line in the middle of the peninsula marks the demilitarised zone (DMZ) between North and South Korea. South Korea's capital, Seoul, is the blaze of white just across the border.
This is a picture of the Korean Naval vessel, Cheonan, that North Korea attacked in 2010. 46 people were killed.


Love this post. Thank you for sharing and teaching us back in the States, Ashley and Mihee!
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome! Thanks for reading :)
DeleteOh... We should talk about this later. The relationship between South and North is very complicated. Not just only emotional things, but historical, economical and political things especially. And there are many arguments about the naval vessel, Cheonan. Ministry of National Defense announced that it was attack of North Korea, but some experts argued that it was not an attack, but an accident or another reason.
ReplyDeleteDone! I would love to talk to you about this! SO interesting!
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